Thursday, September 28, 2006

My Heart Hurts

Having a miscarriage can break your heart, your spirit...it broke mine

17 comments:

Joy said...

Oh Amelia...I am sooooo sorry. I have been there, so I understand your sorrow. It is very sad and yes, it hurts your entire being. For some reason, it just wasn't meant to be. Take time to grieve, it's important.

I tell you this to bring you hope...I have 4 healthy children now. BUT, I will always remember my first. You will not forget either, so don't feel bad when it's time to move on. May every day bring you strength and courage to more forward with your life. I wish that for you. {{{Amelia}}}

sfp said...

Oh, Amelia, I'm so sorry.

indigo said...

Am sending you an infinite number of hugs...am so so sorry, Amelia.

iliana said...

Dear Amelia I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending you some hugs.

Ex Libris said...

I am so sorry to hear this, Amelia. Sending healing hugs your way.

Kathy said...

I'm so sorry, there will always be a little crack in your heart...but you will go on. Hugs.

Carl V. said...

I am so very sorry.

Danielle said...

I feel terrible for you! I'm not even sure what to say in such a situation--so very sorry!

Library Lady said...

My doctor told me the body's elimination process is natural when there is a problem with the fetus, and of course I thought you cold son of a bitch.

But, it gave me something to focus on "the why" instead of "what did I do wrong."

I gave myself a certain grief period and eased into exercise in preparation for our next chance. Maggie

Nancy said...

I am so sorry! Sending you lots of hugs!

Lotus Reads said...

My thoughts are with you, Amelia - I hope you are given all the strength you need to overcome this.

Sheri said...

Love and Other Impossible Pursuits - Try reading this... it might be painful but sometimes when your in the nidst of pain, you just wanna know your not alone.

Les said...

I'm sending you my very deepest sympathies.

cipriano said...

What can words from people you do not know, do?
Except perhaps show that we think of you,
Today, in your misfortune. Hoping
That treasure rewards, your present coping.
-- Cip

Joy said...

Amelia ~ Please come back. I haven't "known" you for long, but I miss you.

Have you started any of the new treasures you received? Of your stash, I know someone that just finished THE THIRTEENTH TALE and JOURNAL. She loved them both. :) I haven't heard a bad thing of TTT. I'm so looking forward to reading it.

Hope to "see" you soon. {{{Amelia}}}

Library Lady said...

We are worried for you.

How about getting back on the bicycle blog to ease OUR minds.

Post something just for us, please. Maggie

Beckyb said...

It does hurt - A LOT - hang in there - we had a miscarriage of sorts last week too -thought we had a daughter waiting for us in China and they gave her to someone else - SO hard. My prayers are with you.